Infidelity Counselling
Couples Counselling
The divide between you feels like a canyon—too wide to cross. Trust is shattered, and both of you are left standing on opposite sides, wondering if it’s possible to meet in the middle again. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. There is a way to heal the wounds, to rebuild the connection that feels impossible right now. Together, we can begin the process of repairing what’s been broken. Book a free connection call—because the road to healing doesn’t have to be walked alone, and there is hope for both of you
For the Faithful Partner
The betrayal feels like a wound that never heals. You trusted them with your heart, your dreams, your future, and now you’re left wondering if anything real remains. The sleepless nights, the endless questions, the constant ache of wondering ‘Why wasn’t I enough?’ You deserve answers. But more than that, you deserve healing. Healing is possible, and I’m here to help guide you through this pain. Let’s work together to rebuild the trust you thought was lost. Book a free connection call today—there’s hope, even after betrayal.
For the Unfaithful Partner
The guilt weighs heavy, like a stone you can’t put down. You’ve hurt the person you love most, and now the shame and regret feel unbearable. You never wanted to break their heart, but here you are, staring at the pieces. It feels like no matter what you say or do, it’s never enough. But here’s the truth: healing is still possible. Together, we can navigate this storm and find a way back to the love you thought was lost. Schedule a free connection call—there’s a path forward, and it starts here.
Infidelity Counseling
Infidelity can feel like a deep wound in the heart of a relationship. The trust you once shared may feel shattered, and you’re left wondering if the connection can ever be restored. But even in the face of betrayal, healing is possible. Whether you’re both committed to repairing what’s been broken or seeking guidance to understand and process what happened, I’m here to provide a structured, compassionate path forward. I specialize in helping couples find clarity, rebuild trust, and rediscover the love they once shared.
Types of Infidelity Counseling
- Financial Infidelity
- Financial infidelity occurs when one partner conceals financial information, decisions, or debts from the other. Money is deeply tied to security, trust, and values, and financial dishonesty can lead to feelings of betrayal. Together, we’ll explore what led to these behaviors and work to rebuild a foundation of transparency and partnership around finances.
- Approach: Using both Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method Therapy, we address the emotions and attachment needs that are often hidden beneath financial secrecy. We’ll work through practical communication exercises to establish a new foundation of openness and shared goals.
- Emotional Infidelity
- Emotional infidelity can feel like your partner’s heart is elsewhere, often leading to deep hurt, jealousy, and insecurity. Whether your partner is confiding in someone else or you’re feeling disconnected emotionally, this type of betrayal often requires careful attention to attachment needs and emotional safety within the relationship.
- Approach: Through Attachment-Based Therapy and Trauma-Informed Therapy, we’ll address the underlying needs for emotional intimacy and connection that may have led to emotional infidelity. I use EFT to help you reconnect on a deep emotional level, fostering safety, vulnerability, and empathy.
- Physical Infidelity
- Physical infidelity can shake the very foundation of a relationship, challenging feelings of worth, security, and trust. The path to healing often requires a compassionate space to navigate the pain, along with clear steps to re-establish intimacy and rebuild confidence in the relationship.
- Approach: I use a combination of Trauma-Based Therapy and Gottman Method Therapy to address the intense emotions that come with physical betrayal. Together, we’ll explore the trauma caused by the infidelity, work on developing strategies for re-establishing trust, and create a roadmap for healing through structured communication and intimacy exercises.
- Online Infidelity
- In a digital age, online infidelity has become an increasingly common form of betrayal, whether through sexting, online affairs, or habitual use of porn that impacts the relationship. This type of infidelity can be as impactful as physical betrayal, leading to feelings of inadequacy, hurt, and isolation.
- Approach: My approach to online infidelity includes Addiction-Focused Counseling and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Together, we’ll unpack the motivations and behaviors underlying online infidelity, addressing attachment needs, boundaries, and the ways technology impacts intimacy.